Tease and Denial Goddess, Dominatrix Amanda

Devoted to the Beautiful Young Goddess of Tease and Denial
A Slave's Personal Interviews and Conversations with this Fascinating Dominatrix
Detailing Her Sex Life, Involvement in BDSM, and Her Love of Femdom Bondage

Continuing where we left off in my last entry - Domina Amanda has never told me the age of this Dominatrix friend. This wasn’t a denial in response to an inquiry, I’ve never asked the question since it’s rude. But from what has been said in the BDSM stories told, I’m guessing that they met when her friend was in her mid to late twenties and Domina Amanda was around eighteen/nineteen. I do know there is less than a ten year age different between them, so I base my guess on that (and how hot is that?? A teenage Goddess Amanda, paired with another dominatrix roughly 26 years old. What an intolerably delicious tease to imagine! I intend to politely encourage her telling of more BDSM stories from that time in her life. I so pressed my pleasure at the thought of this that she shared a small picture of herself with me, taken in her late teens).

(The picture to the right is of Domina Amanda at just about 19 years old -> )

Like our beautiful young Goddess, her Dominatrix friend had also gotten involved with BDSM at a young age, first working professionally in a femdom dungeon in the early Nineties - one of “the better known Houses in Manhattan“ at that time - (I think I can guess which one, since it opened in 1990 and would fit what’s been said in conversation to me. Domina Amanda understandably won’t say exactly because she doesn’t like giving out personal information about other people - these women all have to deal with stalkers and sickos who try to intrude in their personal lives). After that, this Dominatrix friend worked in a number of BDSM establishments internationally and did some fetish modeling along with more elite femdom work, eventually returning to Manhattan to open her own private, appointment only House with a friend (another dominatrix she had known for years), which the Goddess describes on her Blog as “[the two dominatricies'] own an exclusive femdom dungeon in Manhattan… a private, two level affair with three well stocked rooms, along with an oubliette, office and leather lounge“.

Domina Amanda told me that - “since we were having sex and loved to spend time together, one thing led to another and she offered me a job working with her as an apprentice. I already had more BDSM related experience at the time than that title would suggest, but it was an appropriate step and a welcome opportunity, considering both the context and the company I’d be sharing. She knew I wanted to develop my own fetish related skills more, and learn about the more serious, business end of BDSM, and since we already got along very well, the idea was perfect. Besides, sometimes you want to spend time with someone on your own level… in this case, another dominant woman… and the two of us together were an excellent pair. So for me, I got to spend more time with a new friend, got a job that paid well, and got to explore of my own sexual interests in a environment constructed for femdom that was perfectly suited to female domination and BDSM. While for her, she had a welcome companion and partner in session.”

“I also got along very well with her business partner - this hot, but evil looking asian dominatrix. You (meaning, me) would have liked her but she would have been too much for you. This lady was ruthless orgasm denial personified ~laughs~, I mean she never let a slave have an orgasm… male or female, didn’t matter… total denial, never ever an orgasm, and I loved that. In her mind, only the “free” were entitled to cum, and slaves only existed to facilitate the pleasure of their owners. So orgasm denial wasn’t fetish play, it was the slave’s appropriate condition. I very much agree with her, but I think if you never let a slave release, they get set in an expected routine. Allowing the infrequent, unexpected chance to cum builds hope and uncertainty in the slave… making the negative end of tease and denial all the more crushing when his hopes are ruined.

[This evil looking asian dominatrix] was just pure savage in all her femdom bondage sessions, and an expert at Needle and Electricity Play. Brutal nasty with a cane, but fantastic to watch ~laughs~. She had narrow slits for eyes, that gave the constant impression that everything bored her, and she could drop her face expressionless at will… pure, cold silence that would make male slaves cower.”

The BDSM stories she must have about that place have to be incredible, and I know there is some much more she has to tell about this particular Dominatrix friend. I will try to learn what I can and promise to share what I am allowed to speak of with you here.

And at that point we were cut off by another dominatrix phone sex call she had. It was at least a 4 hour long one because she was still on the call when I left to go out for the evening. The only bit of gossip I can share with you on that is that the call was with a long term orgasm denial slave she enjoys torturing. Domina Amanda doesn’t talk about her calls with others unless there is either prior agreement or total power exchange, so “going to be a while… this guy is a lot of fun… very serious into cruel femdom bondage play… heavy orgasm denial so we get along great“, is all I have to report on that.

Until next time.

Domina Amanda has also posted 3 new femdom recordings to her blog here - Free Audio Sex Stories - these are mp3s linked directly to that post.

Picking up where I left off unavoidably long ago, Domina Amanda was talking about her history with a professional dominatrix she became involved with when she was living in NYC frequenting its femdom BDSM scene. Since the conversation went towards sex, she took a moment to talk about how she likes to give another woman an orgasm - “[Domina Amanda - ] When I have sex with another dominant woman, I like to see an orgasm rage, not whisper in. We attack each other - not lesbian domination and submission, but an intense, shared animalistic thing ~laughs~. With a slave of either sex, it depends… I usually like to tease and torture a lot, as you know ~laughs~ and play up denial very hard… then when things are at that severe point, I either abruptly stop, leaving them begging pathetically… or I just go off and let it come flooding out suddenly so the release is overwhelming. Depends though, sometimes it’s better to let the tease softly build and let things slowly develop right like that to climax… sometimes I like to give a ruined orgasm, which is just plain nasty in such a good way ~laughs~… and yes, you can do that to a girl too… other times, when I feel especially cruel, complete orgasm denial is what I want to see… all different options depending on the person and of course my mood, as always.”

At the time, reading her words had me so worked up that I didn’t ask half the questions I probably could have on a topic as excellent as this. My apologies, but all that talk of orgasm, and tease and denial, by this beautiful young Goddess was just too much for mere mortal man, and I lost focus LOL. I love BDSM stories like these. Who can resist hearing a woman talk about how she likes to tease and torture her slaves, manipulating them to orgasm or cruel denial.

“[Domina Amanda - ] Like I was saying, pretty much from the moment we met at that femdom bondage party, the two of us [our Goddess and her Dominatrix friend] just had this connection that worked perfectly. Both of us were bold, confident females, but there were no domination games between us - none of the pissing contests that often end up happening between two dominant women which end friendships as fast as they begin, especially in the competitive world of professional BDSM. Those stories all go the same and make me sick… which is why you value the true friends you find in this scene.”

Besides going to femdom parties together, the two spent their time shopping, receiving admirers to allow their worship and offerings, making appearances in BDSM clubs, and otherwise did the things one would expect two beautiful young dominant women would do. The Dominatrix introduced our young Goddess to many of her friends and she quickly became more involved in the NYC BDSM community - “[Domina Amanda - ] Though I’ve drifted in the last couple years, especially since I moved out to the SF Bay Area. The BDSM scene here is good, of course, but it’s not the same as NYC in terms of the people. I don’t mean that in a bad way, it just doesn’t have that ‘home’ feel the City has. The private femdom parties I have been to here have pretty much all been good, and for the most part I only have good stories to tell with regard to my experiences… I just miss Manhattan ~pouts and laughs~.“

“Before meeting her, I had already had a good deal of friends within the local BDSM community [in NYC] but [the Dominatrix] knew the more of the ‘elite’ crowd and the professional dominatrix circuit. I intended to be deeply involved and was moving in that direction on my own… which is why I already had as much acceptance as I did and was being invited to private femdom parties like the one where she and I met. But my familiarity with the more dedicated and serious lifestyle crowd was accelerated by [the Dominatrix] opening doors that otherwise would have taken time to build enough trust to open. Don’t at all think I was using her though… I liked and respected her too much for anything like that, and still do. It doesn’t matter how dominant you are, or how skilled at femdom bondage play, you don’t really get anywhere serious in the BDSM community without knowing people. Skill and commitment is acknowledged hand in hand with that, but if people don’t know you, you don’t have trust.”

My next chapter will talk more about this friend, and how the two of them went into business together.

Until then, Domina Amanda has added a very hot free femdom audio tease to her blog entitled - Absolute Orgasm Denial, that you should check out.