Tease and Denial Goddess, Dominatrix Amanda

At the end of the femdom party they each went their separate way, but Domina Amanda and the Dominatrix she met that night, had really hit it off. They soon started hanging out together very regularly. “[Domina Amanda - ] We went clubbing together a lot at first, staying out straight through until morning. Sometimes to BDSM clubs, and sometimes just out to dance. When we went dancing we played cock tease games with the idiots that flocked to us of course… and in the end we’d go home together laughing. Boys like that don‘t take denial well, but that just makes putting them through it all the more fun. An unexpected femdom reality check for the morons… and if they start getting rude… well, their next lesson in female domination deals with ballbusting, and how cruel a pair of sexy boots can be when angered.” (She also said she could tell some “damn good stories” about those nights too, mentioning one about a “crash course in femdom cbt” the two gave one particularly obnoxious guy, but she stopped there, laughing and saying these were hers to keep. She is such a tease when it comes to things like that, and I hate that kind of denial, but she is by far generous enough with her BDSM stories, and it is only my greed that makes me complain).

She continued - “The two of us ended up in bed together quickly… that’s one of the best things about lesbian sex - no time wasted ~laughs~. Women tease and lead men on because they deserve to be treated that way, ending usually in denial because the ‘jerk‘ in a man has to be broken down… but when girls are with each other, its all sex ~grinz~”. There was no BDSM play or lesbian domination sex with them though, since neither was a switch and submission was out of the question. They just “enjoyed each other on equal terms”, and while they didn’t get into an actual relationship, they became “best friends who fuck” and hung out together often.

“[Domina Amanda - ] While I’m bisexual and pretty much down the middle when it comes to my preferences, she tended more towards lesbian. She enjoyed heavy torture and strapon domination sex with men, much like I do… and her femdom sessions covered a broad range of what falls under BDSM. But I never saw her be penetrated by a man or really talk of it. Plenty of femdom strapon domination by her ~laughs~, of both sexes… but never her riding a boy’s cock. She enjoyed male slaves, but the best way to describe her is similar to how I feel… she enjoyed having sex with men when they were put into what is normally expected to be the female position. I can’t say how much she liked to fuck guys, though I think she had done so in the past. If so, again her approach was probably much the same as mine… I do the fucking, even when I let a slave cock inside of me.”

They did do female domination scenes together with choice friends, including the pain slut that was there the night they first met. Because of this memory, they favored her and made her something of a pet to them both when they felt like taking her out with them.

(“[Domina Amanda - ] You always ask me to tell you more about my BDSM stories, well there is one about a night we both took up a leather whip… a matched pair… and just went off on that pain slut until she had worked up this amazing full body sweat. By the time we were done her hair was matted down so beautifully… we just left her bound like that while the two of us had sex on the floor in front of her ~laughs~ I can still remember the orgasm I had… maybe I will tell you the details sometime ~grinz~.”)

Their friendship grew to be a close one quickly, as did their respect for one another - “and the sex was fantastic… when I go down on a girl I like to bury myself in her pussy, getting her as wet and worked up as possible… I tease sometimes, but that’s just a prelude to the full-out real thing… [the Dominatrix] is the same way. We both saw eye to eye on that. There are times to eat out nice and slow… all tease and gentle… and times to just get in and really go at it… and we both knew how to gauge each other’s moods perfectly that way. None of the tease and denial you like so much, we were all about sexual fulfillment to the extreme when we were locked together.”

I have to pause here in my report because female domination plays its part in my workplace too, and I have to get something done for my boss. As you can see, while I’ve gotten us more details, they have also opened the door to many more BDSM stories I will try to learn more about for all of us. I will return later and give you more on this report.

Until then, Domina Amanda is in the middle of telling one of her excellent femdom stories on her blog. It began as an extreme femdom torture session and is crossing into strapon domination sex now.

When last I wrote here, a dominatrix phone sex call had interrupted my conversation with the lovely Domina Amanda. I decided to use that as a logical point to pause in the telling of this story, even though we did speak more that night after her phone sex call was done (she did mention in passing to me that the call was a cruel tease and denial session ending in a very abrupt and cold orgasm denial as she announced “I‘ve had enough fun with you, you‘re done for tonight“ and hung up the phone on him. Hearing her talk about it was a cruel tease for me too, which is probably the reason she told me).

I didn’t have to remind her where we left off, she picked up the story as if we had only stopped speaking a moment, and told me more about the BDSM party, the lesbian pain slut she was whipping, and the intriguing dominatrix who stepped up to join them.

This BDSM story’s progress so far - we were in Manhattan at a private dungeon, an exclusive invite only event catering only to the serious minded, and tolerating only female domination. Our beautifully cruel Dominatrix Amanda was enjoying a bound pain slut when another equally cruel dominatrix joined them. Neither domina had spoken a word to the other yet, and the lesbian slave was helplessly trapped between them.

The slut was tied to a St. Andrew’s Cross, and Domina Amanda was using a short leather whip on the back of her legs, while her soon-to-be friend was using her fingernails to tease the tightly bound body of the helpless female slave. They did this together for around a half hour, still not speaking even as much as an introduction to one another. They just silently went about tormenting the lucky girl, driving her to repeated orgasm in her masochistic euphoria, while exchanging smiles and nods of approval.

After they were done with the pain slut they proceeded to spend the rest of the night at the BDSM party together, moving from room to room, slave to slave, victim to victim. Domina Amanda stalked the halls with leather whip constantly in hand, trading the earlier flicker whip for a variety of other options “as fit [her] mood”, while her new found dominatrix friend preferred to use her leather gloved hands to claw and pull, caress and tease, spank and twist. She says that at first they didn’t speak, instead sharing thoughts only with their eyes in a way that was very sexy and intimate. It was at least 2 hours after they had first met that words were finally exchanged, and then only to make basic introductions, before kissing each other deeply - “[Domina Amanda - ] And she was a damn good kisser. I’m very aggressive when it comes to sex and for that matter any intimacy in general. That doesn’t mean I can’t be a gentle tease ~laughs~, it’s just that my preference is for the kind of rough sex that consumes those involved. We kissed each other as if there were not a single person there, and then again, as if we were the two everyone else wished they were with… which I have no doubt was the case.”

Being a femdom party, the dungeon was inhabited mostly by women - with a high proportion of fetish attired dominatrix guests. The slaves were a mix of personally owned pets set to serve, some fetish models and professionals - about 2 to 1, female to male. There was one special case in this, a male slave who had been put on open use by his owner to signify his crossing the line between casual BDSM and serious femdom slavery - “[Domina Amanda - ] He was young… maybe 22, but with a teenage face. He had already experienced forced bisexuality that night… it was the demand his new dominatrix owner put upon him to prove the sincerity of his want to be truly owned. She had left him bound over a bench in the middle of one of the larger rooms… his ass still leaking cum - another male sex slave had been ordered to fuck him in front of everyone - ~laughs~ no orgasm denial there that is for sure, that stud must have dumped a half cup in him… his ass just kept dripping more. When we got to him his cock was very hard, and a sight like that screams tease and denial to me, so we spent a good hour toying with his cock and balls… sometimes cruel and rough, sometimes just a soft tease to drive him really wild… but we felt the right of release was that of his new dominatrix owner only tonight, regardless of the party‘s protocols… and so our time with him ended in orgasm denial… as such things usually do at femdom BDSM events ~laughs~.”

They ended the night by returning to tease the female slave they had originally met over - [Domina Amanda - ] I took up that cute little flicker whip again and really went off on her. She had been hanging there all night, so I had to bring the slut around and prepare her for the four foot single tail that we intended to finish her with. She still had energy to cry out in pleasure and pain as that long leather whip ran along her back and ass. She collapsed in the end… nothing new for her, she really got into this shit wonderfully. We both played with her pussy as she hung there, giving her an orgasm in that nice way as a reward for bringing the two of us together.”

“You see, I’m not always about tease and denial… that’s an unfair accusation that has been wrongfully pointed at me ~laughs~. Strict orgasm control, yes… nasty, sexy tease, yes… ruthlessly selfish domination sex, hell yes… but not always denial.”

This seems like a good place to pause in this story. More of this dominatrix tale will come soon, as Domina Amanda told me much more about this episode in her life than I have written here so far. Next we get into the experiences of the two together in the BDSM community, and how Domina Amanda first got seriously involved in professional female domination.

And you can always read more about this beautifully cruel dominatrix in her Femdom Diary - Tease and Denial

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