Tease and Denial Goddess, Dominatrix Amanda

Part One

( <- This picture is of Domina Amanda close to her 21st birthday.)

Those of you who read her Femdom Diary know that Domina Amanda became active in BDSM while she was still a teenager, starting first with taking a very dominant role in her sexual encounters, and quickly adding basic elements of BDSM once she began having actual sex (primarily sexual domination and rope bondage to start, but then spanking and soon after this she found one of the great loves of her life - the whip). She began to frequent BDSM clubs in the city, becoming more deeply involved with that scene. At first she was exclusively lesbian femdom, but her curiosity led to bisexuality, though always in a position of female domination as fits her obvious superiority. She was always in the dominant position in any of her relationships, even the youngest, but by the time she started going to BDSM clubs, these had turned into open slave ownership. Her personal property has since always worn collars of some form to publicly display what they are.

(One of the BDSM stories Domina Amanda has recently shared in her diary is a four part reflection on a very submissive lesbian chastity slave she owned when she was around 18 years old. Another pair speaks of an older business man she regularly abused and humiliated in male chastity domination when she was probably about a year older.)

When she was in her late teens she became personally involved with an established dominatrix in NYC, a woman that appears to be approximately ten years older than Domina Amanda, and who had been working in the BDSM scene professionally for near a decade by that time (from this point on I’m going to refer to this distinguished young lady by the title “Dominatrix” only, since its not appropriate for me to pretend to any familiarity, and Domina Amanda prefers not to use names publicly as she speaks of her life’s stories, simply because there are “too many idiots out there who attempt to put pieces together and stick their nose into one’s personal life and worse. If I choose to speak about myself that is fine, but when I start throwing in the names of other people then I am in essence speaking of their personal business too. Regardless of if our stories are shared, it’s not right to publicly share such things, excepting when names are withheld and telling details omitted… simply as a measure of respect and courtesy“).

(Domina Amanda has made references to this time in her life in a number of places, but the first post she did is in Part V of her About Me series entitled - “Early Days of BDSM” on her Femdom Diary)

According to her, she met this dominatrix through a mutual female friend at a private domination party in Manhattan. This mutual friend was a 20-something pain slut with well placed piercings and tattoos; a submissive who Domina Amanda says she has some “damn hot” Lesbian BDSM stories to tell about… as if any of her BDSM stories could be anything but that (according to Domina Amanda - “this pain slut was such a great little tease… she would play up like mad and then try to ‘run away’, like a flirt playing games… how dare a slave try to play tease and denial her own way!! ~laughs~… but it wasn’t like that really at all… while she looked like a tease on the surface she had no intention of running away… she just wanted to be taken as if she was being given no choice… and then you just had to whip and fondle her and watch her orgasm like mad ~laughs~… rope bondage and suspension got her fires started, then the whip set her ablaze… she was perfect for so many styles of femdom sadism… and some great lesbian domination sex too”).

(I’ll have time to post the next in this series tomorrow in Part Two - Femdom Pain Slut Introduction)