Tease and Denial Goddess, Dominatrix Amanda

(Took me a couple days longer than I anticipated, but picking up where I last left off - )

Part Two

Domina Amanda said this to me about the femdom party at which she first met the dominatrix who was to become her close friend - “[the pain slut] was one of the ‘fetish toys’ there that night - one of the girls that was tied up for general use. Of course limits existed but at these parties there would be a bunch of slaves - some just serving, others tied up and available for play. Since these femdom parties were invite only you knew everyone was going to be cool, and so the slaves would have a variety of people work on them throughout the night - all dominant women of course, all serious about the BDSM community - pure femdom. Sometimes in groups, and sometimes longer, individual sessions… but the slaves would be helpless there, just open to whatever the female guests wanted. Denial would not be an option to them though once started… preset limits existed as a house rule, but once you went in as a slave you would be expected to perform within those rules… as was each dominant. Slaves could orgasm with the permission of the dominatrix controlling them at the moment, and forms of bondage sex did occur. Most enjoyed seeing the female slaves orgasm as often as possible… but for the male slaves it was tease and denial more than allowed release.”

(While the domination portion of these parties was totally female, the slaves were a mix of sexes, including some shemales and feminized bisexual males.)

Domina Amanda continued with - “[the pain slut] loved the whip… I mean, she would get wet from just seeing you hold a whip that she knew was going to be used on her soon… easy to bring her to orgasm with one… whip, cat, flogger, crop, just so long as it was leather - she had a real serious fetish for leather, also in clothing - and since I love them all too, but from the female domination side ~laughs~, much of my time that night was spent with her ~laughs~. And she knew how I was with one… I get this intense look in my eyes ~grinz nasty~, so she was damn happy when she first saw me standing behind her, whip in hand… she was like half way to orgasm before I’d really done anything more than tease her a little… ~laughs~ such a greedy pain slut. And us together always made for an intense lesbian domination session… I will tell you more of her in the future, she’s the kind of stuff that the best BDSM stories are made of ~laughs~ and I’ve kept in touch with her through the years so more stories are sure to be in the making. She‘s also great to play very evil orgasm denial games with because when she gets worked up she totally loses herself in her need. I‘ve seen her beg almost hysterically when she’s on the verge of orgasm but not allowed to cum. Orgasm denial was more painful to her than a long single tail… beautifully so ~grinz~.”

And then this about how she met her soon to be close friend - “[the pain slut] was tied to a wooden St. Andrew’s Cross (the whole party was setup in fine BDSM style with excellent atmosphere)… naked but for the leather hood she loved to wear and a pair of 10 eye Doc Marten’s which looked hot on her when she was stripped like that ~grinz~. I think I was using a simple flicker whip on the back of her legs when this tall female comes up… she’s got a long black skirt on with boots, and a tight black leather jacket zipped halfway up her neck… not all decked up in stereotypical dominatrix gear… rather reserved, but definitely classy and so obviously about femdom that no “uniform” could ever be a necessity. Without pausing, she walks directly to the bound slut… smiling to me as she takes up position on the other side… and with a nod of approval from me, she starts to rake our captive’s back slowly with her long fingernails, not to the point of clawing, but enough to get a reaction… playing a sort of tease and denial with her… softer, then harder… faster, then slower… and we quickly fell into a rhythm together, matching each others movements… whip to nails… complimenting or contrasting as fit the reaction we wanted to get out of the girl. We smiled at each other and just stayed like that, grinning without saying anything, as our little pain slut writhed against the cross…”

At this point we were interrupted by a dominatrix phone sex call she received, so I will pause things here. Future BDSM stories I will probably break up in this way, reflecting how the narrative was received. More in my next post).

Part One

( <- This picture is of Domina Amanda close to her 21st birthday.)

Those of you who read her Femdom Diary know that Domina Amanda became active in BDSM while she was still a teenager, starting first with taking a very dominant role in her sexual encounters, and quickly adding basic elements of BDSM once she began having actual sex (primarily sexual domination and rope bondage to start, but then spanking and soon after this she found one of the great loves of her life - the whip). She began to frequent BDSM clubs in the city, becoming more deeply involved with that scene. At first she was exclusively lesbian femdom, but her curiosity led to bisexuality, though always in a position of female domination as fits her obvious superiority. She was always in the dominant position in any of her relationships, even the youngest, but by the time she started going to BDSM clubs, these had turned into open slave ownership. Her personal property has since always worn collars of some form to publicly display what they are.

(One of the BDSM stories Domina Amanda has recently shared in her diary is a four part reflection on a very submissive lesbian chastity slave she owned when she was around 18 years old. Another pair speaks of an older business man she regularly abused and humiliated in male chastity domination when she was probably about a year older.)

When she was in her late teens she became personally involved with an established dominatrix in NYC, a woman that appears to be approximately ten years older than Domina Amanda, and who had been working in the BDSM scene professionally for near a decade by that time (from this point on I’m going to refer to this distinguished young lady by the title “Dominatrix” only, since its not appropriate for me to pretend to any familiarity, and Domina Amanda prefers not to use names publicly as she speaks of her life’s stories, simply because there are “too many idiots out there who attempt to put pieces together and stick their nose into one’s personal life and worse. If I choose to speak about myself that is fine, but when I start throwing in the names of other people then I am in essence speaking of their personal business too. Regardless of if our stories are shared, it’s not right to publicly share such things, excepting when names are withheld and telling details omitted… simply as a measure of respect and courtesy“).

(Domina Amanda has made references to this time in her life in a number of places, but the first post she did is in Part V of her About Me series entitled - “Early Days of BDSM” on her Femdom Diary)

According to her, she met this dominatrix through a mutual female friend at a private domination party in Manhattan. This mutual friend was a 20-something pain slut with well placed piercings and tattoos; a submissive who Domina Amanda says she has some “damn hot” Lesbian BDSM stories to tell about… as if any of her BDSM stories could be anything but that (according to Domina Amanda - “this pain slut was such a great little tease… she would play up like mad and then try to ‘run away’, like a flirt playing games… how dare a slave try to play tease and denial her own way!! ~laughs~… but it wasn’t like that really at all… while she looked like a tease on the surface she had no intention of running away… she just wanted to be taken as if she was being given no choice… and then you just had to whip and fondle her and watch her orgasm like mad ~laughs~… rope bondage and suspension got her fires started, then the whip set her ablaze… she was perfect for so many styles of femdom sadism… and some great lesbian domination sex too”).

(I’ll have time to post the next in this series tomorrow in Part Two - Femdom Pain Slut Introduction)

I am lucky to be able to talk to Domina Amanda often, best of all when we have a tease and denial phone sex session together, as I think you can guess , my fetish is all too obvious. But we don’t always speak on the phone. Usually we talk in IMs and Chat when she’s not too busy and she chooses to allow her slaves to enjoy her company. At these times the conversations are no less stimulating than a dominatrix phone sex call - what conversation with Domina Amanda would not be stimulating? Sometimes we talk of BDSM, and other times about life as a whole. The talks I enjoy the most are those dealing with the femdom stories of her life and approach to BDSM, both because she has so much experience, and she speaks in such a blunt, dominant manner.

I try not to be annoying with questions, but since Domina Amanda’s diary includes so many personal thoughts about herself and her relationships, along with her take on BDSM and female domination, I always end up wanting to know more. When we’re on the phone together I don’t ask many questions, I just shut up and the Tease and Denial Goddess rules me. But when she allows me to talk with her online I usually end up asking her about the world of BDSM as she has lived it.

My particular interest is in the stories she tells about the people she has met in her life and been involved with. Obviously also, what she says about her personal experiences in the femdom community, her BDSM stories as a whole, and the side comments she makes about things she has done which, by the way, end up being such a tease since she intentionally leaves you wanting to know more (I’ve mentioned this to her playfully and she just laughs saying, “good, you boys are too curious as it is, a little denial helps keep you in line… and when that isn’t enough, there is always a whip and a healthy dose of pain ~grinz evil~“).

I was lucky enough to have a few conversations with her not so long ago, when she was online through most of an afternoon into the night. Between the dominatrix phone sex calls she took, we talked about tease and denial (of course lol), how much she enjoys ass worship, favorite aspects of BDSM, and then I started asking her questions about her femdom diary. We spoke about some of her opinions regarding the femdom community, and then about certain BDSM stories she has told of people and things in her past. She shared some very interesting details with me that further develop what she has written in her diary. I asked if I could repeat them here and she said yes, so I plan to take notes when she and I talk, and share what I find out with the rest of you here.

My next post will be the first of a series where she talks more about her early times as a dominatrix.

Domina Amanda has a dominatrix phone sex radio show she is hosting with her friend, the lovely Mistress Alexis. The name of the show - Devilish Tease - comes from how the two of them bring different sexual styles to the program, just as they have different approaches to phone domination. The delightfully sensual Mistress Alexis is a “sensuous tease” while the dangerously beautiful Domina Amanda is the feminine perfection of “devilish denial”. The show is an orgasm waiting to happen.

They both share a love of domination sex in all its femdom forms, especially when it comes to exploiting the men who are lucky enough to be the targets of their attention. Even though they are quite different in some ways, it’s obvious they’re good friends and there have been suggestions that at private times they have been much more (passing comments about Domina Amanda and how much she loves to wear and use strapons, have led to knowing laughs from them both - the sort of feminine laughter that gets a man’s cock hard in seconds with an orgasm crying to be released from his sack and the words “lesbian strapon” dominating his mind).

Both are amazingly erotic examples of female domination - a playful flirt paired with a dark temptress - and their show is a mixed radio program and sex chat where they each discuss their thoughts on what we all want to know most about - hot dominatrix sex, hotter women, BDSM stories and female domination (tease and denial being an obvious personal favorite for me). The chat component allows others to participate by asking questions and adding their own feelings about what is said.

They’ve also done some “How To” and “What does this mean” sessions where they have taught others more about sexuality, femdom, BDSM, and how to get the most out of your sex life (best is when other women are present, asking questions about how to become better lovers and how to dominate their boyfriends through orgasm denial, and a better understanding of their own sexual power over men. It’s so damn hot hearing dominant women teach other girls about domination sex, by sharing their BDSM stories as examples to inspire others).

Even better - after the show the pair are available for private Two Dominatrix phone sex calls at a discounted rate. Having spoken to them both I can say with no reservation that the combination of the two styles of female domination and orgasm denial is amazing, and they play off one another so damn well that even after you cum (if they allow it), you’ll already feel another orgasm building fast in its want to give itself up to the two of them too.

The show starts at 10:30pm Eastern on - Cock Radio
The chat opens at the same time in - Community Kink

Neither location requires any downloads to use, they’re simply Java based programs (no downloads, assuming your computer is Java capable).

The Two Dominatrix phone sex special occurs after that but make sure you get there early or you might wait all night for a chance to serve them (or contact them and make an appointment), and that kind of orgasm denial - the missed opportunity - isn’t near as good as what they have in mind for you.

Domina Amanda - the pure confidence of this woman leaves no doubt that she is beyond any simple cock tease or sexual player, but a lifestyle dominatrix for whom female domination is a natural part of life. The depth of her intelligence marks a woman who is never satisfied with the knowledge she has, but instead is forever gaining more. “Bitch” is not a necessity for her; she doesn’t need to yell foul words at a slave to make him feel his submission, the effect of her presence speaks for itself, though her fist can come down very hard when she desires it.

She goes into amazing detail about herself in her online femdom diary, talking candidly about BDSM and her sexual experiences, sharing her thoughts on various subjects and glimpses into her life through the femdom stories she tells. All of this and more, displaying a deep understanding of herself and the topics she chooses to discuss (of note to those sharing my tastes - tease and denial is a frequent theme, not just in stories she tells and free audio clips she shares, but a number of essays she has written about tease and denial, orgasm denial, and related fetish topics). This is a young dominatrix who has lived greatly, much more than what her years and youth would suggest, but more importantly, she has learned much from what she has done, in that way only the truly superior are able to do.

The truth of who Domina Amanda is becomes clear to anyone taking the time to listen to what she shares in her writing. And now that I’ve had the pleasure of talking to her on the phone, I can honestly say that all of it is true of the person herself. And I can also say that the reward of an incredible orgasm is waiting for those who submit fully to her irresistible beauty and uncompromising female domination.

A beautifully dominant woman who knows how to tease and torture with a mix of pure female domination and that seductive, sensual quality that only the hottest women possess. A quality I have never seen any woman exploit so masterfully as Domina Amanda in a tease and denial phone sex session which she manipulated like an artist.

Dominant women talk of owning your cock. You’ll happily give that to her, and she will take so much more. Everything Domina Amanda wants will be hers, and you’ll give it all wishing you had ever more to offer.

I must warn you before you call her for that first tease and denial phone sex session. The first conversation pulls you in. The voice wraps around you and you start to slip away. Your submission pours from you before you realize what is happening, even if you‘ve never sought female domination before. And then that first, incredible orgasm changes everything. From that point on, no orgasm will ever feel quite the same. Nothing will, and you will always want to be with her. That is why Domina Amanda is said to be so dangerously beautiful.

“You’re not going to cum.” Like I said, such a blunt statement of pure female domination and strict orgasm denial, said with the simple surety of a woman who does as she pleases and expects to be obeyed.

From there Domina Amanda described why my hopes for an orgasm at her hands would end only in the denial those few words made so very painfully clear. Simply put - the sexual demands she puts upon her slaves overwhelm all but the most dedicated. And it is only those bare few whose submission to her is of the level of absolute that she demands, that ever enjoy the rewards of her approval.

She explained how she could easily work me up like no one had ever before. A femdom tease and denial session where she would take hold of me, torture me, dominate me in every way, building up a “raging orgasm” inside of my cock that could only be released when I had given myself to her totally. Complete submission to her female domination. I would either be her perfect sex slave, receiving reward when she chose, or a chastity slave locked in permanent orgasm denial until the day I had proven myself to her, my dominatrix owner.

In her words there, Domina Amanda warned me not to waste her time with excuses and wants; whatever enjoyment I hoped for meant nothing to her. My cock was something she would use to enjoy herself, a sexual toy to be fondled or abused as fit her whim. My sexual desires were of no consideration, I would only be something used by her. And I would submit to this cruel and beautiful dominatrix and all she expected, else she would ruin my hopes with the cold orgasm denial she promised when she first spoke.

The search I did for “tease and denial” seemed innocent LOL. I found so much more than I could have ever anticipated, and as I read more I found my cock getting harder for this beautifully cruel dominatrix.

But it wasn’t just what she said in that essay ( read it here - Orgasm Denial), more than anything is was how she said it. The confidence of a woman for whom female domination is as natural as breathing is to us all. My words here fail her in trying to really convey the effect because she is a far better writer than I, and you can’t really describe something like that, you have to read it yourself - Femdom Diary of Domina Amanda.

Continued - Tease and Denial Phone Sex

Domina Amanda - Words can’t describe how incredibly hot this woman is. Not just what she looks like, but the voice and mind behind the fantastic body. And her insatiable sexual appetites are enough to put any man on the edge of a heart attack. Talk about a dominant woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it. This beauty indulges her every sexual whim, using and discarding both male and female like toys to be played with, and then replaced by the endless supply of more who beg to crawl to her feet.

“Tease and Denial Dominatrix Amanda.” The first word of my title is “tease” - even just talking about her is to do that to oneself terribly. Her effect is that powerful, and her domination of her prey, that total.

I’m creating this blog as an offering to the Divine Creature that she is, the Cruel Dominatrix, the Beautiful Young Demoness, the Dark Seductress - Domina Amanda. There can be no doubt that she is deserving of so much more than this simple thing, but every little gift is another compliment to her feminine beauty and female supremacy. If you know anything at all of her, you understand this well already. If you have never met her, or even spoken with her, I pity you for all you have missed.

I intentionally chose a simple title for my offering, one that reflects my favorite fetish and the dominatrix this is all dedicated to. It’s also how I originally found her. While surfing the web I did a search for “tease and denial” and was blessed enough to have a female domination site she is on come up. It described her simply as “strict, demanding orgasm denial”. Those few words and the small picture next to them, somehow hooked me.

The page it led to was a short essay she had written, where her first words stated clearly that I wasn’t going to cum - Orgasm Denial (you can read it here). No cute tease, no sweet talk, no clumsy attempts at female domination or bogus BDSM stories. Just a slap in the face right away. All hope removed with a blunt “no”.

You’d think that a turn-off, and most of the time it would be, but what she wrote next just pulled me in.

Continued - Orgasm Denial Fetish